Here to help you choose the perfect gifts for everyone on your list, be they funny, kid-friendly, cost-conscious, or something handmade, are the editors and reporters from the Insider Picks team.
If you need some inspiration for what to get for her (whether she's your girlfriend, best friend, wife, mom, daughter, or aunt), we have you covered with some truly excellent gift ideas. Though you can never go wrong with flowers, chocolates, and a thoughtful card, we've also included some more unique gift ideas, like a custom map poster and a book about "Friends" on our list.
Many of these gifts should arrive before Valentine's Day, though the timing might differ depending on your location. And if a gift doesn't arrive in time, we've got a hack for that over here.
The 5 best gifts for her:
- A set of red wines and rosés from VineBox
- A soothing, all-natural body lotion
- A scented, fancy Diptyque candle
- A Disney + subscription
- An affordable cashmere crew from Everlane
Check out all 85 gifts for her:
This list includes a Sponsored Product that has been suggested by M.M.LaFleur; it also meets our editorial criteria in terms of quality and value.*
A Valentine's Day-ready set of wines
Vinebox is a fun subscription service that sends vials of some of the best wines in the world by the glass, so she can discover new blends she loves. This gift set comes with 9 vials of reds and rosés that go perfectly with her Valentine's Day chocolates. You can also gift her a subscription so she can try some new wines every few months.
A calming weighted blanket
Weighted blankets are filled with pounds of microbeads that provide constant pressure. The result is a hug-like sensation that soothes, relieves anxiety, stress, and makes going to bed super comfortable.
A luxe body lotion
Upgrade their post-shower routine with this super hydrating, skin-smoothing body lotion. It's filled with nourishing, clean ingredients that will keep dry winter skin at bay.
A sheet set that makes bedtime better
Brooklinen has a well-earned reputation as the internet's favorite bedding startup. Its bedding is comfortable and luxurious, and any of the 14 colors and patterns can instantly elevate the look of her bedroom. If she's not ready to revamp her whole bedding set, gift her a pair of pillowcases to start.
A chunky, cozy scarf
This chunky, fringed scarf is equal parts cozy and cool. She'll love wrapping this plush knit around her neck on chilly days.
A chocolate and card combo
This looks like a regular card, but inside there's a delicious dark chocolate bar filled with creamy caramel. And of course, room to leave a sweet personal note.
A luxe cashmere sweater
Everlane's clothing prices are much more affordable than most brands, thanks to its commitment to radical transparency. We also love how soft and cozy its cashmere sweaters are, and bet that she'll probably wear the cold-weather essential every week. It currently comes in 17 colors, so you can choose one that fits her style best.
A Disney Plus gift subscription
Give her unlimited access to movies and shows from Disney, Pixar, Marvel, Star Wars, National Geographic, and 20th Century Fox — pretty much everything she needs to pass the time while home for the holidays.
Read everything there is to know about Disney+ over here and, if you need some binge-spiration, here are all the new movies available to stream.
A cozy cashmere shawl
If she already has enough cashmere sweaters, consider gifting her this elegant cashmere shawl from M.M.LaFleur, which is an Insider Picks go-to for timeless and high-quality workwear staples for women. Available in three timeless neutral colors — black, deep indigo, or taupe heather (pictured) — you can't choose wrong.
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A pain-relieving seat cushion
Sitting all day in uncomfortable chairs can really strain her back. Show her you care with a seat cushion to help alleviate some of the pain. Purple makes pillows in different shapes and sizes to target and support specific areas, but all are very supportive and comfortable.
Read our full review of the cushion here.
A cold brew coffee maker for her mornings
If she always craves cold brew, give her the tools to make it herself from the comfort of her own kitchen. This device is super easy to use and can make a cup that rivals the cold brew from the coffee shop since she can use her favorite grounds.
May arrive after Christmas.
A cute and practical charging pad
While charging pads are useful tech gifts, many are made with generic and unsightly plastic. Courant is changing that with the Catch:3. The wireless charging pad is made with sleek aluminum and pebbled leather that comes in appealing colors like Dusty Rose, and doubles as a catchall tray for all their knick-knacks.
A gift set of delightfully scented candles
Candles make a great gift for just about every occasion. Otherland combines gorgeous packaging with incredible scents for candles that will transport her with their whimsy. Choose from scents like Canopy, which blends fresh fig with herby ivy greens and mint, or Chandelier, which mixes light Champagne with saffron and musky leather.
A nourishing hair mask for dry hair
Heat-damaged, color-treated, or just plain dry hair will love this deep conditioning mask. Organic honey is the hero ingredient here and will help refresh their strands with some much-needed moisture. Plus, we love the sweet honey bear packaging.
A Kindle so she can read literally anything, anywhere
While there's no denying that flipping through real, paper pages is a great feeling, an ebook reader is a great option for travelers and commuters. She can access her entire library of ebooks on this thing, which makes it easy to always dive into a new book. We're partial to Amazon's Kindle Paperwhite with its glare-free display and waterproofing, which allows you to read literally anywhere.
Here's our full review of the Kindle Paperwhite.
A smart fitness tracker
This Fitbit is an all-in-one smartwatch and a fitness tracker with plenty of great features that she'll enjoy using. From 24/7 activity and sleep tracking to water resistance, call and text capabilities, and more, she can wear this everywhere she goes.
A Polaroid camera for instant snapshots
Fujifilm Instax Mini 9 Instant Camera, available at Urban Outfitters and Amazon, from $49.95 (prices vary based on color)
In a world where most of our pictures stay on our smartphones, having a Polaroid camera makes snapping life's everyday moments a little more exciting. Waiting for pictures to develop is always exciting, but what she'll love even more is actually getting to hold onto them.
An Amazon Echo that matches her style
The Echo is the perfect addition to her nightstand or countertop. It uses Alexa to accomplish any number of tasks, from answering questions to reordering supplies on Amazon and comes in five colors that'll complement her style.
A lip gloss that has all the benefits of a balm
This clean-beauty favorite delivers the glossy sheen of a lip gloss but with the nourishing ingredients of a lip balm. The non-sticky consistency is perfect for everyday wear and the pocket-sized tubes make great stocking stuffers.
Read a review of the lip gloss and other popular Tower28 products here.
A new and entertaining Echo Show
Whether she has a host of Alexa-enabled devices or is new to smart home technology, she'll love using the Echo Show. The latest version is sleeker and more compact than ever before, with a bright display which she can use to watch her favorite shows, video call her friends, keep an eye on her security cameras, and more.
A mini waffle iron for cute and quick breakfasts
Not only does this mini waffle maker take up a little counter space, but it also heats up in minutes, so she can make her favorite breakfast in a flash.
A small smart speaker
This little Google Assistant speaker is loaded with smart features. She can play music, check the weather, and control the rest of her smart home system with just her voice.
An electric toothbrush she didn't think she needed
The direct-to-consumer model has found its place in almost every industry, toothbrushes included. Goby is a startup making great electric toothbrushes at more reasonable prices than most by selling them straight to their customers. Plus, the bright colors will make brushing her teeth a little more fun.
A cult-favorite candle
Gifting candles is an art and Diptyque works for every lady on your list. She'll swoon over the chic French aesthetic and the aromatic blend of rose petals and blackcurrant leaves.
A reusable bag that comes in dozens of fun prints
You can never have too many reusable bags, especially when they're as cute as the ones Baggu makes. The Standard Baggu is designed to hold up to 50 pounds and folds into a flat 5-inch by 5-inch pouch for easy storage in her purse.
A set of silk hair scrunchies
These silk hair elastics create less friction than cotton ones, which means less breakage and frizz for her strands. If she wouldn't likely splurge on these for herself, she'll appreciate receiving them as a gift.
A book club that will never cancel on her (unless she wants to skip a month)
A Book of the Month membership is the perfect gift to satisfy the bookworm on your list. This gift membership gets your bookworm their pick of the best new books for $12.50 to $15 a month depending on the length of subscription you choose to gift (three, six, or 12 months). They can also request extra books for an additional $9.99 each if they read more than one book a month.
A set of sheet masks for all of her winter skin woes
Whether she wants to hydrate her winter-ravaged skin or clear out congested pores, this sheet mask set can help address them while she catches up on Disney+.
Hand sanitizer that looks cool while fending off bacteria
Let's face it — no one has ever loved the gift of hand sanitizer. But it's actually really practical! Touchland is a new startup that's out to make attractive and efficacious hand sanitizers that they'll want to use. The spray formula is moisturizing, doesn't smell like alcohol or leave hands sticky, and comes in a sleek modern packaging they'll be proud to show off.
Read our full review of Touchland's hand sanitizers here.
A piece of cast iron cookware she'll use to make all of her favorite dishes
Unlike most cooking tools, a cast iron pan actually gets better with time. This braiser from Le Creuset is loved by Insider Picks editors; it comes in a bunch of colors (so you can choose her favorite), and it's the perfect size for the kinds of one-pot, saucy pasta dishes we make all the time.
It's wide enough and deep enough that she won't have to worry about adding too much liquid and having the contents spill over the sides. It's also great for cooking meats and veggies since there's plenty of surface area, so everything has room to get nice and crispy.
A fresh take on classic pearl earrings
Pearl earrings are a feminine classic. This pair blends the timeless style with a modern touch, with little pearls wrapped around a small, ear-hugging hoop that's great for everyday wear and special occasions.
A stylish and comfortable pair of shoes
Popular shoe startup Allbirds is equal parts cool and comfortable. You can't go wrong with any of its styles, but if she's already got a pair of the original Wool Runners, try the Wool Runner Mizzle or Tree Runners, both styles that we love around here at Insider Picks.
A frame to show off her favorite Polaroid shots
This frame is the perfect addition to go with her Polaroid camera. With slots made to fit the miniature prints, she'll love using this to show off her best snapshots.
Beautiful floral bouquets
Both of these online florists offer stunning arrangements made from only the freshest blooms, and they're delivered quickly too.
A trendy and warm puffer jacket
A puffer is absolutely necessary for cold winter days. This one is made from 100% recycled materials, which is especially cool if she's passionate about sustainability, and has a boxy fit that's trendy yet cozy.
A practical everyday bag that looks good too
We're huge fans of Dagne Dover's thoughtfully designed bags. Their Weston and Ryan bags are laptop bags with the brand's signature sleek neoprene fabric and smart design that keeps everything she'll need organized and easily accessible.
Read our full review of the Dagne Dover Ryan Laptop Bag here.
A little box of cute trinkets
Customize a little box for her full of cute trinkets and sweet messages. Pick the print of the box, what little gifts you'd like to put inside, then fill in your own message and pictures you want to be included. It's a small but sweet gift that works for just about anything.
Heart-shaped succulents to add some green to her space
Bring some life to her space with these adorable succulents. With little attention needed, they're a great gift for amateur plant parents and experienced ones alike.
A surprisingly elegant headband
Sleek velvet is studded with faux-pearl accents for a headband that'll add a feminine touch to every outfit she pairs it with.
Cups of healthy food she can take on the go
If she's always trying to find new ways to prioritize health into her busy schedule, help her out with some Daily Harvest cups. You can prepay for nine cups, which she can redeem and pick out herself. She can choose from smoothies, oat bowls, soups, and other bowls of healthy food that are super easy to take on the go.
Fancy olive oil
If she spends a lot of time in the kitchen, she'll appreciate this high-quality olive oil. A drizzle of Alive from Brightland adds a vibrant, zesty flavor to any dish, plus the beautiful bottle will look great on display in her kitchen.
A creative subscription for coffee lovers
Atlas Coffee Club is an affordable subscription service that'll send her a new bag of globally-curated, single-origin coffee beans each month. Each shipment comes with brewing information, a postcard from the country of origin, tasting notes, and packaging inspired by the country of origin's culture for an immersive and educational experience.
A simple and uplifting necklace
A sweet necklace with an even sweeter mission, each one is emblazoned with a positive intention like "optimism," "strength," or "gratitude," which they can carry with them throughout the day. A portion of the proceeds for every necklace sold will be donated to the non-profit Girls Inc.
A pair of leggings that are just as fashionable as they are comfortable
Outdoor Voices has made its name in the athleisure world for offering high-quality workout apparel that women feel great and look great in. This pair comes in six color options and has a unique colorblocked style, plus a snug compression fit that actually works to keep her comfortable through a long workout.
A box full of team pride
She represents her team with pride, so help her out with a FanChest. This box is the ultimate in sports fan gifts, filled with apparel, accessories, and more team swag than she really needs, but will definitely love.
Really durable winter boots
If she lives somewhere where it snows, she needs really durable winter boots. This UGG pair is waterproof, has a super-soft wool lining, and is temperature rated to sustain temperatures as low as -25ºF.
The best socks she's never tried
They may just seem like a basic, everyday accessory, but socks are among the most underrated gifts you can give. Bombas spent two years perfecting its gym socks, and we think they got it right. With thoughtful innovations, like a blister tab and cushioned footbeds, her feet will notice the difference as soon as she slips on the socks.
A luxurious and relaxing bubble bath
Just because she's not a kid anymore doesn't mean she's too old for a bubble bath. This foaming bubble bath is the upgraded adult version, with the calming properties of lavender sure to soothe her body and mind.
A soft pair of socks
There's nothing better than slipping on cozy socks in the winter. With a stretchy, light compression fabric, this pair is sure to do the trick.
Sophisticated and tech-friendly leather gloves
Leather gloves are a classy way to protect her hands from winter weather. A supple leather exterior, cashmere lining, and touch tips on the thumb and index fingers make this pair a no-brainer for keeping her hands toasty on even the coldest of days.
A set of loose-leaf teas that even Oprah loves
This set of loose-leaf teas made it into Oprah's Favorite Things back in 2018. It's filled with three variations of chai that she'll enjoy sipping. If she's exclusively a tea drinker, check out our gift guide for tea lovers.
A sleek suitcase that'll be her travel go-to
If she's trying to live a more sustainable life, try this carry-on spinner from Paravel. The hard polycarbonate exterior, interior lining, aluminum handle, and zippers are all made with recycled materials, and the sleek detailing on the body is made with vegan leather. It's a gorgeous and thoughtful gift that she'll love using even at a packed airport.
A pressure cooker she'll use to make everything
Whether she loves to cook decadent meals, is adamant about meal prepping, or likes to make her time in the kitchen as efficient as possible, the Instant Pot can help her out. The kitchen gadget has 14 smart programs, like saute, simmer, and slow cook, that make cooking a breeze and can save her lots of time in the kitchen.
A customized map of her favorite place
Nostalgic gifts always make great ones. Pick any location you want, whether it's a whole city or a very specific address, then customize the map with colors, labels, frames, your desired orientation, and more. It's an undeniably cool gift and one that's sure to make her sentimental.
Read our review of Grafomap here.
Chocolate-covered strawberries
These are so good that you'll want to eat all of these rich milk, dark, and white chocolate strawberries by yourself.
A cookbook full of unique and delicious recipes
Urbanite turned farmer's wife with a Chinese and Jewish background, Molly Yeh has lots of unlikely stories and recipes to share. Her book delves into her life story between recipes which blend cooking techniques, ingredients, and dishes she's picked up from all corners of her life. The result? Unusual and delicious creations, like Scallion Pancake Challah and Asian Scotch Eggs. It's a great pick for adventurous cooks who can appreciate a good laugh along the way.
A Champagne flute that'll keep her bubbles chilled
She enjoys her bubbles best when cold, so make sure they're always just the way she likes them, with the inventive Corkcicle flute. The shatterproof stainless steel and triple insulation promise crisp Champagne every time.
A dainty jewelry holder
This pretty little swan will look great on her nightstand or dresser. It's a small, but beautiful piece of decor, and super practical in that it can hold rings, necklaces, and more.
A watch that nails the minimalist aesthetic
With smartwatches and phones that act like appendages, it might seem like the classic analog watch is disposable. Yet, there's something about the timeless style of an analog watch that no piece of modern tech can match. This watch is well made and dainty, with a small face that is prominent without being obtrusive, making it her next great accessory.
A heated massager to melt the day away
After a long day, all she wants is some true relaxation to melt away the tension that's built up. While she can't get a real massage every day, you can give her this at-home shiatsu massager, which can give her a quality massage for much less.
A cute and convenient everyday bag
She might have a lot of bags or she might have none, but whatever her style, she'll love this one from Cuyana. The silhouette has a structured but still feminine style, the tassels add a little flair to the otherwise simple piece, and there's plenty of convenient storage.
The one that she'll never be able to put down
Real "Friends" fans have already seen every episode (more than once), but they probably haven't read this book. Miller dives into "Friends," analyzing the show's history, '90s history in general, and more to create a picture of how this show came to be the phenomenon that we're still watching today.
A cutting board of her favorite state
Whether she's cutting veggies or preparing a lovely cheese plate, she'll love to do so on this unique bamboo board. The boards come in the shapes of all 50 states and Puerto Rico, and each is engraved with artwork that highlights important cities and sights.
A great pair of wireless earbuds for working out
Once she tries wireless earbuds, she won't want to go back to the regular kind. This pair is compatible with Google Assistant and Siri, plus they're sweatproof and water-resistant, making them the perfect pair for her next workout.
A fun and informative cooking class
If she values experiences more than things, she'll love the chance to take a cooking class led by a local chef. Put aside an afternoon to learn how to make pasta from scratch, create decadent desserts, and assemble sushi together. Of course, you'll both get to eat your dishes and take home the leftovers.
A powerful wireless speaker
Sleek and minimal, the Sonos One won't overwhelm or distract from her existing decor. It can play music and podcasts via Bluetooth so there won't be unsightly cords to deal with either.
A cozy beanie for cold days
A beanie is not just practical for staying warm on cold days, but it adds an air of cozy chicness to any outfit. This rib-knit beanie made of speckled yarn is warm and cute, so she can wear it whether she's freezing or just wants to add it to her look for style points.
A set of great makeup bags
Every woman needs some nice bags to hold her makeup and toiletries, whether for traveling or keeping on her dresser. This leather set comes with two sizes, one smaller and one larger, and can even be monogrammed if you want to make it a little more personal.
A cute way to show off her zodiac sign
To the average eye, this necklace just looks like a cool piece of jewelry, but it actually represents her zodiac sign. It's a fun way to gift her some jewelry with a special meaning, but subtle enough to make its way into her everyday wear. Mejuri's zodiac collection includes rings too.
A really good mug she can take camping or into the office
With a vacuum-insulated interior and secure top, this mug works for just about any occasion. Whether she wants to tote her hot oatmeal to the office or enjoy some chili while camping, this is what she'll want to use.
Hair-care products that have her name written all over them
Ordinarily, it might seem strange to gift someone bottles of shampoo and conditioner, but not with Function of Beauty's highly giftable products. They take her hair concerns into account when developing her personalized hair-care system. She can also choose the color and fragrance of her formula, and even the labels on the bottles.
A serum that holds up to its name
There are a lot of serums out there, making lofty claims about how much they'll improve skin, but Maelove's Glow Maker really lives up to the hype. If the fact that it was developed by MIT scientists is not enough, it also costs less than $30, and it really will get her skin glowing in no time.
An artistic vase for a pop of color
Sometimes it's all about the aesthetic. This modern-shaped vase is stylishly speckled and adds an instant revamp to any space.
A soft robe she'll love to wrap up in
Anyone who appreciates the little comforts will love slipping into this soft cotton robe. The flattering fit, side pockets, and lightweight waffle fabric make this something she'll want to wear all the time (when she can, at least).
Read our full review of the robe here.
A pair of joggers made for just lounging around
Sometimes, she just wants to lounge around in something super soft. And by sometimes, we mean all the time. Treat her to some super-soft loungewear so she can feel great when loafing around.
A handy streaming device
Maybe she's trying to cut the cord with cable, or maybe she's just sick of watching Netflix solely on her laptop. Whatever it is, a Roku Ultra is an easy-to-use device that gives her access to plenty of awesome content to stream.
Read our full review of the Roku Ultra.
A flask that brews her tea on the go
She loves having her tea every morning, but there's no way for her to brew the loose-leaf in a travel mug. That's exactly what the T2 does. All she has to do is fill with water, load up the infuser with her favorite tea, and let it brew. Plus, the T2 keeps tea warm for up to six hours, so she can enjoy it throughout the day.
A hype-worthy pullover
There's a lot of hype around Patagonia apparel, but we think it's warranted. This sweater embodies the Patagonia ethos of great fitting, high-quality, performance apparel with its super-soft, warm cotton and a quilted exterior that looks nice too.
A surprise set of new undies
MeUndies makes shopping for underwear a lot more fun, and this gift set is just one example. All you do for this mystery pack is pick out a size, and she'll receive a set of three surprising new pairs.
A month of unlimited shopping
Okay, so not all the shopping, but RTR Unlimited is a great choice for shoppers who constantly want to update their wardrobe without spending major bucks. With the Unlimited plan, she can rent four styles at a time and swap her picks anytime. Rent the Runway has great luxury brands for her to choose from, with everything from casual weekend wares to special occasion outfits.
Read our full review on Rent the Runway Unlimited here.
A cute pair of sunglasses
Sunglasses are one of the most fun accessories to accumulate. With different shapes, colorful lenses, and frames, she can have a bunch of different pairs to match different looks she's going for. This pair is a great place to start, with a simple shape but options for fun colored lenses and frames. Or if you're not sure of her style preferences, an e-gift card would give her the flexibility, and it's delivered immediately so you won't stress about shipping.
All she needs for a perfect movie night in
If her ideal night is wine, popcorn, and a movie, don't miss this great gift box curated by Winc. Filled with a bottle of Dime Red Blend and four uniquely flavored caramel popcorns, like caramel vanilla bean or caramel bourbon black pepper, this is sure to up the ante for movie night.
The gift of delicious cheese
Delight her with a gift box of handcrafted cheeses from Vermont. There's some English-style cheddar, a cave-aged semi-firm cheese, a mild and salty blue, and a bright rind cheese, so she can stick to what she knows or try something new. Let's face it, it's all delicious.
A set of dark towels that won't show her makeup stains
These gentle and fluffy towels were made to help her wash off the day's makeup with ease. There are three different patterns you can choose to embroider onto the towels, all of which are adorable.
A face mask fanatic's dream set
A set of six luxurious face masks from La Mer will give her everything she needs to achieve a radiant glow and smoother skin.